Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Puppers

In the past few weeks, David and I have been considering getting a puppy. We have always known that after we save up the money and finally purchase a home (a real house, not a condo) that we will end up getting a Labrador (and that won't be for at least five years), but the possibility of getting another (much smaller) dog has been weighing on us as of late.

Since the idea of getting a smaller dog soon has been floating around in our thoughts, I've researched breeds and found that the Puggle just might be the perfect little puppy for us, among a few others, but the breed is of particular interest to me, and has been growing on David as well.

Every once in a while, mostly on Sundays, we will go to the mall and look at the puppies which usually makes me really happy and unfortunately extremely hopeful. The Sunday before last, we decided to spend some time playing with one of the three Puggles that the pet store currently has. That decision was either an excellent choice or a terrible mistake because I fell in love. He has the absolute perfect temperament: quiet, calm and endearingly sweet. It doesn't hurt that he's also disgustingly adorable. Still resigned to waiting until after we have been married and gone on our honeymoon to get a lil pup, we left the store and I only felt sad because I wanted THAT puppy. I felt like he was mine already.

This past Sunday David, my future MIL (Shari) and I went to the mall to get him a belated birthday present and took Shari to the pet store to see the puppy for herself. Not only did I fall in love yet again, but so did Shari... and David.

We realized that if we put money in the honeymoon fund for this month, paid car payments and bought a puppy, we would be a little broke for a couple of weeks, but it is definitely doable. But with that realization comes the problem of making a wise decision. Is getting a puppy right now, as David is moving into our condo and we are facing the holidays and wedding planning getting increasingly overwhelming, really a good idea? No, probably not. But do we feel like this particular puppy is ours? Yes, we kind of do. We already have a list of names we like for the little guy.

So therein lies the puppy dilemma: To buy now and just deal with all the issues that may come up, but have the Puggle we want, or should we wait until after the honeymoon and for another perfect little Puggle to hopefully come along?





{all photos taken from Google search}

4 comments:

Unknown said...

Oh Andie that is a HUGE dilema!! Puggles are the cutest! Having a dog is like having a child...hahaha...seriously! Its a lot of time and patience and work. I love you and Dave to death and I know you guys could handle just about ANYTHING but planning a wedding alone is one of the most time consuming stressful things ever and on top of that the holidays are here. My advice would be to just wait. I know I know you LOVE this puppy already and I will support what ever decision you guys choose to make but I wouldn't feel right if I wasn't honest! I love you guys!

Unknown said...

Thanks for the advice G! You're totally right, and I've been feeling that way, but it's hard when you see the little guy in a case and he's got those sad eyes. BUT YOU'RE RIGHT. I think I just needed someone to tell remind me. <3

Jayne said...

We desperately want a puggle too!

But, sadly, I do think you guys should wait. You've got a ton of things going on, and all of these transitions to make, not to mention holidays, wedding and traveling...all of these events create stress and unforeseen challenges and time constraints. A puppy is going to need you and Dave to be settled, in order for it to get settled, and it will need some seriously undivided attention for awhile. Puppies need a schedule and training, before they can deal healthily with upheavals like travel and such. Also, it will be good for you guys to get thru all that you have to do, and then get into your own schedule as a married couple first, and then see if a puppy *really* fits into your lifestyles right now-- If there's actually enough time, money (they're way more expensive than you think!), and energy to devote to what is almost like having a small child. He/she may be perfect for you, but are you perfect for him/her right now?

That being said, I know how tough it is to say no once you've fallen hard.

Good luck! :)

Unknown said...

Court, you're SO RIGHT. i just needed to hear it and re-iterate it in my head again and again so that I KNOW waiting is the best decision. Everything you said is right on the money, and my logical side was telling me those exact things all along, but you're right, it is so hard to wait once you've fallen hard. I've thought about it and I've also decided that once we are really ready for a puppy, I'm gonna try finding a Puggle at a shelter, and if that doesn't work, I'm gonna research reputable breeders and get the right puppy through them.

Thanks for your advice, it really has helped! <3